About life's problems

When we are faced with problems/blunders we often try to find where the source of problem was. Most of the time some people tend to take blame on themselves, thus getting unhappy. Assuming life is a play and we are actors that have been given unique roles to perform, it provides a straight forward answer. Instead of feeling sad about the episode - focus on your circle of influence. There is no need to blame or punish yourself for someone else's mistakes. If you performed your job well, you should be satisfied. Don't set unrealistic expectations. Here is the area where the idea of idealism is to be carefully applied. You should set your own standards of judging yourself. Realize your true assets - your body, heart, mind and brain. Love them and care about them. Let not external and especially uncontrollable factors exploit them.